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Infertility X Intersex

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Hey Everyone :) My journey of acceptance being Intersex has not been that difficult, the hardest part for me personally is dealing with infertility. I remember being a 16 year old girl and sitting in the doctors room with my mother awaiting the results from my sonar scan. When the doctor returned I could see the look of disappointment in his face, he looked my mother in the eye and said 'We've been going through the scans and can confirm that Crystal has been born without uterus, fallopian tubes and ovaries' This led to questions about fertility and the possibility of having biological children,, which I soon discovered is a dead for me. At the time I've never felt more of failure as a woman, I looked my mother in the eyes she reached out her arms and we ended up sobbing away for about an hour. That day I left the hospital more suicidal than ever :( thinking if there is a God why would he do this to me, why am I so different from every girl out there? For years wa...